Hate is such a powerful force in this world. But as with all things, hate must come to an end. And in time, it will. Take, for example, the case of one hateful Fred Phelps. Phelps was the pastor of a pseudo-church that made a habit of spreading hate. The Westboro band spread their brand by hauling signs to funerals proclaiming "God Hates Fags", and though their message was very "loud and proud", they clearly demonstrated by their lack of church size that hate is a losing message.
I say, "was the pastor", because Mr. Phelps is now dead. One can only hope that his message will die with him; but that is not why I am writing this piece. The thoughts that run through my mind at the moment are a mixed bag of nuts, but I will try and sort them out in brief fashion...
First off, I find it important to express to the reader, that Mr. Phelps does not represent the teachings of Christ, or the Bible. Now I know you may be thinking, "But I thought the Bible taught that homosexuality was a sin?" You are exactly right. It does. But it also teaches that adultery is a sin. And it teaches that pornography and lust of the heterosexual nature are sins. Ironically, it also teaches that gossip, greed, jealousy, and gluttony are also all sins- with the same end result. And most importantly, it teaches that hate is not only a sin- but a sin equal to murder in the eyes of God.
So, there we have it. Mr. Phelps may have been right that homosexuality is a sin; but he was in no better place, as biblically speaking, he would be compared to a murderer. His actions were equally offensive to God. The darkness in his heart tainted and distorted any truth his message may have had...
As Christians, it is imperative that we understand one thing: Love. Yes, we are to stand for what is right. Yes, we are to be speakers of truth. Yes, we are called by God to preach repentance of sins. But we are also called by God to love. There MUST be a balance. Paul wrote so very eloquently in 1 Corinthians 13:1-3 that our words may be the best words- but if they are spoken without love, they are just noise; that our wisdom and knowledge may be top notch, but if it is void of love, then it is nothing; and that our actions may astound the world, but if they are done without love as the motive, it will gain us nothing in the end.
And that is just what Mr. Phelps gained for all his life's work- nothing. Let us not ridicule him, or wish him safe journeys to hell- for in so doing we lower ourselves to his level. But rather let us look to him as a warning beacon for what happens when we allow bitterness, unforgiveness, and hate to rule our hearts. Let us examine ourselves in honesty and truth, and allow the Holy Spirit to convict us if love is not our motive. And let us find ourselves always acting with all love, for if Christ so loved the world- so should we.
